ABC by Paley – COURAGE

Then, in interviews, you can hear their modest comments that anyone in their shoes would do the same and it really wasn’t anything special. Is it just pretending modesty, or do these everyday heroes really fail to see their courage? For the courage is not to lack fear, but to act in spite of it. […]

ABC by Paley – RESPONSIBILITY

However, if we feel that all household chores fall on us every day, at work we have to check that others are sure to properly perform their duties, children do their homework on time, and the well-being of people around us depends on us, then most likely someone else should take care of that. Moreover, […]

ABC by Paley – ROLE PLAY

By playing pretend, children learn things such as negotiating, considering the perspectives of others, delaying gratification, comparing reviews with others and making decisions, developing a plan and acting on it, expressing and listening to thoughts, recommending tasks, and combining different information and ideas into whole. This allows the child to empathize with someone else and […]

ABC by Paley – EXPECTATIONS

“If only …” – this is the beginning, which, although it seems innocent, is the source of much disappointment and dissatisfaction. If only the weather had been better, if I had been younger, older, if I had quit my job then, if I hadn’t quit my job then… If only something had happened, we would […]

ABC by Paley – DON’T CRY

As in the case of infants, we are able to rise to the heights of patience and accompany the child in experiencing his emotions. In the case of slightly older children, the tolerance to crying seems to decrease and you can hear parents repeat an often as unsuccessful: “Do not cry, nothing happened”. And when […]

ABC by Paley – MODELING

Sometimes people see learning as an activity that takes place through the use of books, listening to the teacher in class, and remembering what he wants to tell us. On the other hand, many people think that the most effective method of teaching others, especially children, is by punishing or forcing them to do certain […]

ABC by Paley – MOM

Being a mother is not only about holding your tiny, fragrant newborn in your hands. A mother is not only a person who raises her biological or adopted child. She is also a woman who lost her pregnancy but has already experienced maternal love. Being a mom is not only about taking care of children […]

ABC by Paley – LOVE

Most parents will admit that they love their children unconditionally. After careful reflection, however, they recall that quite often there are moments when they want the child to be different, to behave differently, to have different skills and temperament. They want to turn an oak into a rose. In good faith, of course – the […]

ABC by Paley – GENTLENESS

Are you sure about that? If you or your child were in your friend’s place, what would the situation look like then? Would you also assure that nothing happened and most importantly, that you did not hurt yourself with splinters, or maybe your cheeks would flush with anger, and a stream of words that you […]